The sort of life we enjoy depends not so much on what life throws
at us but our general attitude to life and how we deal with what
happens to us.
We get what we think about, whether by design or default, and
when life gets chaotic and things don't turn out right, we have
to remember that this is the Universe's way of telling us
there's a better path.
The secret to overcoming the 'bad' situations we find ourselves
in is our attitude. We need to turn the situation around and look
for the gift. There is usually a lesson to be learned and if we
can see and accept this, then we can put ourselves back in control.
Looking for the gift in a bad situation changes our perspective and
gives us a reason to be grateful. Being grateful now equals genuine
happiness with your current situation and feelings of happiness will
attract more of them. We can learn the lesson and move on.
Sometimes it's very difficult to see anything positive at all in
some situations, but we hear stories of people faced with life
threatening illnesses, for example, who have realized that the
threat has made them re-appraise their priorities and appreciate
the life that they have.
It may be that in the beginning we can't see the greatest gifts that
will come from a situation, but we can begin to look.
By the same token, there is great power to be gained by looking back
on past painful experiences and circumstances where we have felt like
the victim and finding the positive. We must give up feeling guilty
about any part of our past. If we talk to anyone about our past we
must learn to share the gifts and not the drama. We must learn to
see the positive in every situation and only talk about the positive.
This isn't something that comes naturally to most of us but we should
work at it until it does become natural.
The larger the challenge, problem or disaster, the greater the
potential for a powerful and life-changing gift. How powerful would
it be if every time we were faced with what we would normally call a
'negative' experience, our immediate reaction would be one of
excitement, even anticipation - because we know in our hearts that
there is no such thing as a problem without a gift for us in its
hands.
When we are in the throes of any sort of crisis we need to remember
that it is only temporary - The Universe doesn't create a storm which
lasts forever.
Just by changing this one belief regarding our perception of negative
experiences we can literally change our lives. This has untold
potential for increasing our level of happiness which shouldn't be
overlooked.
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